Yen Santos opens up on draining experience with a ‘controlling’ ex

Yen Santos. Picture: Screengrab van Youtube/Yen Santos

With out mentioning names, Yen Santos spoke about her earlier relationship with an ex-boyfriend, whom she described as a “controlling” accomplice who “eliminated” life from her.

Santos opened about her experiences with an ex-boyfriend she refused to name on a YouTube vlog on Wednesday, July 23, when he was requested what occurred in her ‘final relationship’.

The actress beforehand had a controversial relationship with Paolo Contis, which was confirmed by the latter in January 2023. Break-up rumors chased the ex-Couple in Might 2024 after Netizens with eagle eyes seen that that they had adopted one another on Instagram.

“Napakalaking blessing after Natapos after ‘Yun. Massading blessing after sawing ako sa nightmare after’ Yun and I walked away, Kasi Hindi Talaga was worthwhile. It was not price waste my time, my vitality Sa somebody after Cino-Manipuling Ka,” she stated.

“That form of life decreases you, and also you lose your self throughout the course of. So Hindi mo gugustuhin ang ganung classeng Buhay, and Minsan, probably the most highly effective factor you are able to do is stroll away and free your self,” she continued.

(It was an enormous blessing that it ended. It’s a massive blessing that I awakened from that nightmare, and I walked away. As a result of it was actually not price it. It was not price losing my time and vitality with somebody who controls and manipulates and manipulates you.

Santos claimed that her ex-boyfriend handled her otherwise to start with, till she lastly realized his true colours. “Siyempre Sa Half Na ‘Yun, Nahulog ako. Naniwala Ako Sa Lahat ng Mga Pinakita Noong Una Kahit Gaaso Ko Ko I-Justify’ Yung Dati. Pero is aware of deep in, could Mga Taong Nasaktan SA TAKES MOLING MIS and MISS MIS and MISS MIS and MISS.”

“Para Sa’kin,” Yung Gan’ung Klaseng Tao, Matatauhan Ka Talaga Kapag Gan’un Ka Tinatrato, “she continued. “Ang Mahalaga, Tapos after. In Mas Maayos Ang Takbo ng Buhay mo ngayon.”

(After all I fell for him. I believed in every thing he confirmed me, and I justified many issues. However you knew deep inside that you simply damage others along with your unsuitable decisions, and it was unsuitable. For me you’ll study quite a bit from that form of individual, particularly if he handled you want that. What’s necessary that it’s executed now could be higher.)

The “Halik” star didn’t announce who she damage notably in her feedback. Her romance with contis, nonetheless, was controversial as a result of it was reportedly accused of unfaithfulness to his ex-girlfriend, LJ Reyes, with Santos.

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Classes from her ex

When Santos was requested in regards to the classes she realized from her ex, she stated that individuals who declare that they “love you instantly” and “massive gestures” are a “pink flag”.

“Isa Sa Natutunan Ko Ay Kapag Ang Isang Tao, Mahal Ka Na Agad, Large gestures Agad Ang Ginagawa Sa’yo, Noona Una, Akala Ko Nakakilig. Pero Hindi, Purple Flag ‘Yun. Love bombarded’ Yun,” she stated. “Takbo Ka. Kasi Hindi Siya Totoo Sa Sarili Niya. Hindi Love” Yun. Divide “Yun Ng Manipulation.”

(One of many issues I’ve realized is that if somebody claims that he instantly loves you and does massive gestures, you’ll assume it makes you dizzy to start with, however it isn’t a pink flag. It’s a type of love bombing. Ren. They aren’t true for themselves. That’s a part of their manipulation.)

The “Halik” star added that if a relationship is unsuitable from the beginning, it’s already unsuitable. “Kapag Pumasok Ka Sa Sitwasyon Na ‘Yun, Umpisa Pa Lang, Mali Na, Mali Talaga Siya.”

“Kasi Alam mo Sa Sarili mo na Might Mga Tao Kang Nasaktan,” she continued. “Kasi Noong Una, Jina-Jina-righte Mo, okay” To, Masaya Kami, Pero can from Sarili mo na Hindi, Alam mo na Might Nasaktan. “

(If you’re a scenario from the beginning, it’s unsuitable. that you simply damage individuals. As a result of once you justify one thing to start with, it says it’s good and you’re pleased – however a few of you say it isn’t – you knew that you’re already hurting others.))

This led Santos to make a public apology to the individuals she had injured previously.

“Para Sa Mga Taong Nasaktan Ko Noong Panahon Na ‘Yun, I’m so sorry. Wala Po Akong Excuse Doon. Mali Po Talaga Ako. Nagkamali Po Ako (towards the individuals I’ve wounded on the time, I’m so regretted.

At one level throughout the video, the actress added that she has nothing to say to her ex.

Contis confirmed that he was single in an interview of November 2024 with Boy Abunda, though he selected to maintain the small print about his relationship with Santos ‘Private’. The exes have since remained mom after they separated.

The actress beforehand teased her Showbizz -Fenceback in Might 2025, though she didn’t reveal the small print of her upcoming undertaking. /MR